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How To Ensure Custody Exchanges Proceed Smoothly


The divorce process always has the potential to become long and arduous and unfortunately, it does not always end with the final decree from a judge. When parents end their marriage, they remain a big part of each other’s lives post-divorce. They may have to talk to each other about important decisions to be made regarding their child, and they will have to see each other during child custody pick-ups and drop-offs. Below, our Media family lawyer provides some tips that can help ensure these exchanges go smoothly.

Take a Third Party

Seeing a former spouse can be uncomfortable for everyone involved. Bringing someone you know is on your side can be a great help. A friend or family member can not only provide support, but they can also act as a protector and a witness, if necessary. When choosing someone to accompany you, choose wisely. Bring along a neutral third party and not anyone who may escalate the situation, such as a new romantic partner.

Show Up On Time

Regardless of whether you are picking your child up from a custody exchange or dropping them off, it is vital that you are on time. Showing up late, especially on a regular basis, will only anger your former spouse. Additionally, regular lateness can hurt you in future custody hearings if your ex wants to modify the current order.

Go Public

It is easy to become involved in a heated argument with your ex while in the privacy of your own home. It is much more difficult to do when you are in a public place. If you know that child custody exchanges have the potential to become contentious, make the exchange in a public place. Parking lots, shopping malls, and even police stations will reduce the chance that emotions will spin out of control and that a heated argument will ensue.

Public places also have the added benefit of being outfitted with video surveillance systems. If something goes wrong and your former spouse engages in misconduct, you will have evidence to prove your case.

Talk About Changes Beforehand

There is always the chance that you will have to make a change to the custody schedule. For example, you may know that you have to work late next Friday, meaning you cannot pick your child up. Discuss the changes with the other parent as soon as you know about it to give them as much notice as possible. Tell them that you will also try to make alternate arrangements. Blindsiding your ex with the change at the last minute will only anger them and make things worse.

Work with a Family Lawyer in Media

Any time a child custody issue arises, it is always worthwhile to speak to a Media family lawyer. At Barbara Flum Stein & Associates, our Media family lawyer can review the facts of your case and give you the best chance of success when enforcing or modifying the original order. Call us today at 610-565-6100 or fill out our online form to schedule a consultation and to obtain the legal advice you need.

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